She picked up the pieces of her life and created something beautiful. From that day forth she shone like the sun and changed the definition of broken. — Randall M. Core
There is power and courage is acknowledging that something has to change. You are not meant to live miserably. You are not meant to be sad, despite what you have lived through, choices you have made, or your current situation. Drama is not cute. Yet, so many are addicted to it because they get something out of it (even if that something is unhealthy or unfruitful).
We get stuck with a script in our heads that we deserve misery. There are consequences for sure to our actions and behaviors. But misery is not one of them.
Believe that you deserve happiness. Change the narrative and tell yourself a new story.